I want to shout from the rooftops that all women should be listening to this podcast. I wish someone would have told me this stuff when I was in my 20s. It would have saved me a lot of strife. Thank you for doing the lords work girl.

The wisdom, the comedic punchlines, and empowering insights keep me coming back to this podcast! Chidera has such a unique perspective and voice! Still true today and now I have favorite episodes downloaded for times I am about to be in the field🤭😈

I’m 22 turning 23. I’m so happy I found this podcast and excited for this new era of men!

I wish I had listened to this when I was in my 20s. But grateful for this now. Chidera is a national treasure for women of all ages.

I appreciate you so so so much. Wish I knew about your work when I was investing in jail bids😭😭😭

i’ll be taking my business to patreon following writing this review because Chidera is sharing unbelievably valuable wisdom and deserves to be PAID. as a recovering people pleaser, she opens my eyes constantly about my true value and steers me further away from my embarrassing history of fawning over men 🤢 thank you for your service, Chidera

Absolutely fabulous. Wise, funny, creative, surprising, exciting, fascinating. Saucy and sharp with deep compassion, too. A breath of fresh air.

Love the podcast but the phlegm/coughing/hard swallowing and stuffy nose is killing the message 😮‍💨😭😖.

Amazing podcast and extremely intelligent, witty, and funny host. So much insight for us women who love too much and yet deserve so much more. Thank you!

Much gratitude.

Like Chidera says, this podcast is not for everyone, but if you’re interested in elevating your mindset and how you deal with men, then it’s worth a listen. This podcast has given me some aha moments and I’ve made some big connections with experiences I’ve had in the past relationships with men. Regardless whether I agree with everything she says or not, there’s so much truth in her words and her perspective. I find this show super helpful, thanks girl!

Infinite wisdom, I adore this woman forever

I wish I would have had this advice starting at 21. This podcast is the pep talk for life. Gems dropped always. I’m in my Lilith era

Love this woman, cherish her. Need to buy her book later today. Another review says something about “pick me” behavior - makes zero sense. Everything Chidera talks about (regardless of if you agree) is for women in the pursuit of taking up more space and asking for more. I’ve tried it before.. trying to be a “chill/low maintenance” girl does not get you far. Period.

This episode speaks to my soul! I hate that I didn’t leave sooner. I hate that I allowed this man to manipulate me into that “relationship”.

I don’t listen to podcasts but I have listened to every episode of this one. My inner child is healing through this podcast and I am learning to be unashamed about my needs. Thank you so much for this.

It seems like you’re still working through some “pick me” stuff, which sort of discounts most of what you say… this seems more like a journal or blog for your own mental health than like being helpful to others? Like idk it’s a whole lot of projection and like stream of consciousness rather than a put together thought out subject? Like I think that style works but only really id you have another person to play off of/have a discussion with about the subject… otherwise…. Again back to it feeling like a journal.

i find it necessary to listen to this before engaging with men. HUNDREDS (if not thousands) of points made here. love how personal experiences are shared as well. and their voice, as well as laugh, is beautiful to listen to!!! you will not be disappointed.

Absolutely essential. S/o to the goddess for this incredible podcast✨

I’ve been listening to her podcast every night and I’m constantly writing down the things she says. The Slumflower Hour is my new favorite podcast!

This podcast is the real raw truth about dating men in 2023 and beyond. This is the real truth about looking long and hard at yourself and raising your standards to create the life that you say you want. Only listen if you’re ready for that level of accountability and honesty with yourself or else you probably won’t relate unless you’ve done some much needed self reflection. This podcast will nudge you and inspire you to demand more out of men and out of life. That’s what it’s done for me anyways. Chidera is witty, confident, intelligent and an overall baddie with a disobedient mindset to match. Absolutely Luv it!!! 10/10 would recommend #patriarchysworstnightmare

Chidera is right to call herself a catalyst for changing mindsets and lifestyles. Been following her since she started #SaggyBoobsMatter and her words always resonate and act as gentle (and not so gentle) reminders. Lol.

I’ve read Chidera’s first book & it was awesome, the podcast feels like the same vibe but like having a friend in your ears with great lessons & humour 💞

Yesss! I’m not your girlfriend I’m your Goddess. Period 💁🏾‍♀️

So glad she finally started the podcast. She’s always relatable, funny and dropping gems! Love, love the episodes so far and can’t wait to hear more and more! ❤️❤️

Absolutely thrilled for everything that is coming with this podcast! If you a real one then you know Chidera’s IG lives were so insightful, brilliant and filling! The Slumflower out here being the honest friend that all the gworls need to keep you safe from yourself! Chiddy, you are incredible and we are so excited for this podcast journey! If you got WAP then subscribe for an upgrade to ya whole life💜