You both have such a positive impact on couples and families. Your work inspires us to [mention something specific you find inspiring, e.g., laugh together more, communicate openly, build a strong foundation]. My wife is a huge fan of Devale's shows, and I can't get enough of your podcast - it feels like we're speaking the same language! We'd love to meet you guys someday, but in the meantime, keep up the fantastic work. We're big fans!"

This podcast is so relatable, real & keeps your interest from beginning to end. I love how the discussions are things you can laugh with, cry with and apply to your own everyday life. Brooklyn Stand up ! New York should be proud ! Love you Khadeen & Devale & the Boys !

Love this podcast but omg let Kay talk.

The information on the podcast was great . I have no children my husband, still the nuggets on conversation of parents and parenting awesome .

Since listening to your podcasts it makes me look at myself and want to be a better spouse, mother, sister, and daughter. You guys keep doing what your doing because it amazing.

I really enjoy listening every week to the DeadAss Podcast!! I have the We Over Me Book and I am a subscriber on Patreon! You can say that I am a big fan on the Ellis family ❤️

You guys have helped my marriage soooo much . Help me to look at things from not only my perspective but my Husband’s. Love seeing black family that shows and talk about not only the good but the bad as well. Please don’t stop the live shows completely.

This podcast keeps blessing me. Thank you both so much. Just finished listening to “the self tape incident” and it was amazing. I’m 5 years in the marriage game and you guys give me hope. Proof that this will be a forever evolving journey. It’s been rough but it great to see/hear couples that continue to do the work.

There soo much to be said about this podcast and this couple! They are amazing. The team alongside them is amazing! The story’s they tell and the guest that they have on the show, are amazing! They have saved me a numerous amount of times with the subject matter and also helped me wanting to open my heart up to love again with the book! Thank God for your willingness to share. Thank you all for being… YOU!!!

You Guys Are Inspirational and Meeting you too for the first time was an experience I couldn’t forget! Kinda life changing you to aren’t reading from a scrip just super transparent and deadass being you! That’s what was the message overall meeting you to. Just honoring self love that awareness opens so many doors. It’s not you to that I idolize it’s the word of God that you to are speaking his words to others I honor that and respect you two whole heartedly said the loud girl at the Apollo 🤣💪🏾❤️

I purchased your book a week ago and let me tell just finished it. Let me say THANK YOU!! So much for the advice and the inspiration about marriage. My wife and I love you both and continue to share your wisdom as a marriage couple and as individuals. Again. Thank you

I just recently started listening to y’all podcast but I’ve been following y’all on all the social media platforms, and YouTube channel and I’m so happy that I found a podcast that inspires me to listen to more of your stories and advice you give about different topics. Keep being the great!!!! Such a huge fan!!!

There’s been a shift in parenting and The Ellis’s broke it all the way down!

Been listening from the beginning and it just gets better. You guys are amazing parents and I love how real you guys are. One of my favorite podcasts still and story time is my absolute favorite segment. You guys are hilarious! Love y’all

I love hearing positive dialogue about AA/black people. Many news outlets are quick to highlight negative images of us. Thank you both for being a role model to children of how to agree to disagree and most importantly how to love yourself, one another and your family.

I’m with Deval on if you want to start something JUST START IT! I don’t care for the new year to start anything. If I want to do something I’m going to start doing it. Being dedicated, consistent, not trying to come up w/ excuses and staying focus.

I started following your podcast from the monogamy episode I viewed a clip I believe on YouTube. I was hooked to both of your insight, Kay’s wit and Devale’s humor. I love the way you express love to each other. I binge listened from the verybeginnign and this show and your views have evolved. Thank you guys for sharing, I’m sure that it is not easy.

I remember seeing these 2 for the first time on a show called Black Love. They grabbed my attention immediately from their body language. The Mrs had her legs draped over his and he sat there accepting it all. As they started talking about their journey Devale started to cry at some point. Khadeen seemed taken by surprised and immediately comforted him. Since then I was hooked on these 2 and their love. Few years later Devale winded up on Sistas and I was like what? I looked him up and started following him and his wife. Now they have this amazing podcast and they are both beautiful smart and talented. Triple threats. Oh and amazing parents. They always bring me out of a rut and lift me up. They are vulnerable, honest and super brave to share so much of their love and vulnerability. I’d love to meet them one day. Go to one of the shows on tour. They are friends in my head and heart and I truly love them both!

I’m not sure if it’s their Northern accent or the topics.. J/K I really love both Devale and Khadeen and the topics they both talk about. Very good podcast!

I want to start off by giving both of you your flowers. You guys really are helping me change the way I handle situations. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 9 years and listening to you guys really helped me better myself for my relationship. I love you guys so much and I want you to keep doing what you are doing because you both have a very powerful voice !! Never forget that.

I just caught up to all the podcasts. I love how open you guys are and i love seeing the change in mindset throughout this podcast journey. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK❤️

I’m so glad Kadeen mentioned to put your foot down with the parents! Everything can be said respectfully you have to be able to have your man’s back.

Subscribe, Subscribe, Subscribe ❤️❤️ Real and black love! ❤️❤️

All I have to say is… subscribe and you’ll see why it’s 5 stars!

My favorite couple to unravel what family and life is in a relationship. Truthfully and Authentically

I literally love every aspect of this podcast. I learned so much! Please keep going! ❤️

I’m new here and I’m starting at 2019 and so far I LOVE IT! I listen to the podcast on the way to work it’s over an hour drive! The give the best advice and have amazing discussions CANT HELP BUT LOVE THE PODCAST!!

Like that this funny and supportive hubby and wife duo come at each topic with their own point of view which could include male female hubby wife dad mom Black American from the South West Indian New York Georgia Millennial Old School Apartment dwellers Homeowners Limited Resources Balling .. It’s never the position that you would expect each of them to take most times which keeps the podcast fun and unpredictable. Range of topics is also a plus not the same ole same ole with it comes to relationships…

Really great podcast. I love the vulnerability from both of the host! ❤️

Your topics jokes are making my day even more joyful to listen to your podcast. The Ellises is my favorite family on social media full of laughter happiness and love all the way ❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥

Devale is really on this episode comparing a push present to a vasectomy present😒 Are we forreal? The energy and life it takes to bring a child into this world cannot be compared to a 15 minute procedure. And your wife did it naturally!! Women can acknowledge your feelings and not have to compare the two because fundamentally and factually the two cannot be compared.

By FAR the best podcast I’ve listened too ❤️👏🏾❤️

I love you guys ! Yall are such an inspiration. This podcast has opened my eyes up too all the things my husband has been saying these past couple years 😂 I love getting a man’s perspective on all of these topics . Keep it up guys . ❤️❤️

Topics are so relatable and real. You won’t be disappointed.

Best podcast hands down. Life and game changer! Y’all the truth🔥

Such an amazing couple I’ve been following them since 2018 and adore the special union that God brought together and they worked hard on time after time after time. Love and appreciate you all ❤️🥰

Absolutely love this podcast. Been listening since the first episode. They are super transparent and honest and give great advice. So thankful for this podcast. My only issue is that the episodes go by so fast but I know that’s me being greedy because the length is fine it’s just so good and goes by too fast for me because the conversation and info is so good that I don’t want it to end.

Kay and Devale are my ALL TIME FAVORITE! They are transparent and don’t hide nothing ! I love their honesty and they don’t care for anyone’s opinions which I love them for that ! Keep doing what you both are doing, I will always support you guys!!

I was soo excited when I found out you guys had a podcast, I’m super late but I wasn’t into podcasts as much as I am now. I was so excited I click on the first one I saw 😂and it was (living in Houston) after I finished that episode I was so happy I had a laughed a bit and really heard what you guys said about your relationship and supporting one another I loved it . Then I realized how much I had missed because I didn’t realized the order but I’m at the beginning and hopefully I catch up but I know I will enjoy it . Y’all keep pushing I love this ❤️

My wife told me to check this out. It’s good to hear black situational talk about ups, down and the all arounds. It’s real, raw, funny and emotional. You let everybody, good couple, bad couple or what ever know that’s it’s ok to get it wrong and fantastic when you learn to get it right. And even when you get it right it’s ok to trip a little.

I really appreciate the honesty, clarity and positive energy from these two humans. Thank you for your perspective and advice regarding money matters. You both are beautiful people in and out! Blessings to you and your family.

I don’t know if you guys know but I think the last pod was uploaded before. I definitely heard those same stories.

The love, wisdom, and ENERGY that these 2 bring!! They are the only reason I’ve opened up the podcast app on my iphone. Forreal though, the topics they discuss make me feel like i am diving into my own relationship and i can relate so much. Sometimes they express things way better than I ever could. I really enjoy the transparency these 2 bring alongside their humor and it makes me feel like i know them personally. Cant wait to attend a live show!

I absolutely loved the Khadeen got a BBL episode! I love exercising so it was really helpful for me!

Are the Podcasts episodes being pulled on your end production wise? I love y’all and had to pause the last two episodes and both times I could not get it to play back. There were many gems in both!! (Soooo anxious and bbl 😂) what’s happening? Just me?

This week’s episode was so on time! I just started working out with a personal trainer. It the be thing I could’ve done for myself. I like lifting weights but I have some injuries so he’s doing corrective work. I’d never have thought of these workouts on my own. Also, form is so important. I’m with you Kay on the protein kick as well!! 💪🏾

Thank you for being an open book. I enjoy listening to you guys.

As a fellow millennial woman I am very much like Kay. I can not remember all my points during debates and I depend on my masculine counterpart to say what they mean and what they say! Relationships will tell you, this is not always the case and it helps so much to hear a married couple going through this. Thank you so much for being so transparent about the valleys of marriage, I feel so much more seen and normal as I get labeled the same for these same things spoke about. You guys are wonderful, keep doing what your doing..blessings to you and your beautiful family ❤️❤️

A great episode, I really enjoyed the conversation and vulnerability between you both. What I noticed, and I’m sure is common throughout A lot of relationships is that we are have expectations of our partners based on what we would do or how we would handle a situation, and when that doesn’t come to fruition, it creates an issue out of no where that leads to arguments. In retrospect, we can see that if we had been straight up communicating Our wants and needs the self created mind games could have all been avoided. Thank you for another great podcast and ways to combat these situations in life and relationships. #Deadass

I loved the Christmas episode. Really chill and cozy!!