If you find these girls cool or inspirational at all I am dead serious please reevaluate your entire life and priorities. Caroline STFUUU you drone on and on about yourself, you are not as deep or smart or cool as you think you are even Nicole is sick of you PLZZ STOP WE ARE ALL BEGGING YOU

Ladies, what is with this theme music? It is not only painfully uncomf to listen with headphones, but it doesn’t match the vibe at ALL. It sounds like I’m about to hear the Kelce brothers talk about football for an hour. For the love of God, please change it to literally anything else 🩷

Waiting for them to get to the part of OTHERS STORIES, now i am 35 mins in and these girls are STILL talking about themselves…. Unbareable

Why does Caroline constantly interrupt Nikki.. there are only 2 of you, have a conversation

I reallllly want to like this podcast. I love rec of the week. I relate to having/living with a partner and really empathize with Nicole’s fertility journey. I like when they give suggestions when it comes to relationships and I think they give good advice but once someone starts whining I have to turn it off.

Overall I feel like they are fun to listen to! I feel like both girls can be unrelatable at times, but you’re never gonna connect w/ everything so I get it. I think Nicole is overall really honest and vulnerable which is refreshing. I really didn’t like Caroline’s response on the 11/4 episode about someone not being able to go to a baby shower if you’re going through infertility/IVF. (And it was clear Nicole didn’t either). If someone is going through a rough season of life, I think it’s absolutely reasonable to expect your close friends to understand that and just bc you didn’t spend two hours playing baby games doesn’t mean you don’t love and support your friend? It screams privilege and that you truly have no idea what infertility or grief is like.

I’ve kept listening because I really like Nicole but unfortunately Caroline has become unbearable. I had to stop listening to the most recent episode 12 minutes in because Caroline was appalled Nicole would bring her dog when traveling. This comment is even more ridiculous because she said it immediately after talking about how she keeps personal items in her brother in laws room because she doesn’t want to carry a giant suitcase. She also demanded she stays in his room. She’s beyond hypocritical and entitled. She’s so mean to Nicole. I officially can’t listen anymore.

I’ve been a listener since day one and I love this podcast but somehow the audio especially Caroline’s is getting worse and worse. I can’t listen to more than 5 minutes because it hurts my ears. Makes me sad because this is my comfort podcast

I think these young ladies do a good job. They are genuine.

I count the days until new episodes come out each week. Nicole and Caroline have made me feel so much less alone in so many aspects of my life and listening to the pod feels like hanging out with my bffs. I respect how real and unfiltered they are and how they’re not afraid to share what’s happening in their lives sand how they’re feeling. Nicole’s vulnerability surrounding her IVF journey is so inspiring and Caroline gives such great advice. I love these two and could not recommend the pod more highly!

I wanted to love this podcast. I love Nicole and think that she brings the podcast at least back down to earth, but listening to both girls together seems a lot like just bashing their husbands and talking about influencing. I don’t think Caroline realizes how privileged and pessimistic she comes off. I appreciate the vulnerability Nicole occasionally brings in, but Caroline is just not relatable at all.

Eh. Sometimes it’s good but other times the things they talk about are extremely out of touch, privileged, and kind of insane. Two examples I can think of: 1). The topic of a man changing his mind to have kids. I think there are two instances in this episode where the men in two different relationships-one being Caroline’s-said that they were unsure if they still wanted kids and Nicole and Caroline’s response to that was basically “no they still want them, they’re just scared about the reality of it and the money”…..uh no. I’m not gonna say Caroline’s husband doesn’t want kids anymore, but in general if your man is telling you he doesn’t want kids, you should probably believe him and not just ignore his desires. 2). The home birth episode where the guest was talking about how she regrets having kids “later” in life came from an extremely privileged place to me. The guest says that she waited so long because she was focused on her career and wanted to make sure she was in a good financial place. Fast forward to her having her baby and now saying she wishes she did it earlier and that you “just make it work” even if you’re not financially in a good place when you get pregnant. Um does she not realize that she “just made it work” because she made sure she was in a good financial place to do it and if she had done it earlier then she would’ve struggled a lot? Telling females to have kids younger, when they’re not financially ready for it (especially in nyc), is irresponsible, and hypocritical considering you are only able to say that because since you focused on your career first, you had the resources and money to make sure it was an easy situation for you. You didn’t have to struggle at all.

The latest episode about the guest’s home birth spreads dangerous misinformation. The guest is not a medical expert and can only speak from personal experience yet she tells the listeners things that are not at all recommended by doctors. They don’t do any research to be able to push back or clarify as hosts. Not helpful for women at all. Co-sleeping in the parents’ because we did it “in the ice age” is a crazy thing to push - truly dangerous for infants. This guest asserts that mothers “can’t crush their babies” in bed. Not true and really unfortunate to be spewing.

Last episode (10/16) really irked me. I do not think anyone without a medical profession should be giving advice on where and how to have children. Nicole’s SIL is a OB/GYN MD who I’d much rather listen to than a random influencer who is giving out medical advice and sharing a very narrow perspective on childbirth. As someone with a medical background they really lost me with this episode and I’m incredibly disappointed in how they are using their platform.

Podcast has many good episode topics but it sometimes takes half the episode to get into the main topic. If you prefer podcasts with structure this probably isn’t for you.

Updated review (10/2024): Unfortunately this podcast is just nottt relatable as others have said. Nothing about their NYC influencer lifestyle is relatable, a lot of their opinions and “advice” seem a bit immature (not all though! I do feel like Caroline drops some good insight from time to time) and the structure feels SO SLOPPY! Despite all this, I do continue to tune in sometimes when I feel like my brain just needs a break from everything serious lol. I think this pod is entertaining if you think of it like a Reddit thread - strangers sharing wild opinions online while you’re just watching with popcorn

The concept of the podcast is good. But they lost me from the beginning when Caroline complained about ever having to change her Christmas plans when her other sisters get married. They both are very narcissistic. And no one cares to hear about your terrible fashion choices or what you did in New York over the weekend. It’s not relatable to your audience at all.

To be honest….i enjoy the listen, but I take everything they say with a grain of salt because they are a bit delulu and not very down to earth 9/3/24 update- this one was hard to listen to. People are allowed to change their minds about kids (and anything else). If this man tells you he’s unsure about kids you should be grateful that he said that before you had them and now it’s up to you to make the decision to work through that or leave. Yes, ideally you’re on the same page for your entire lives about everything, but as mile stones get bigger and you see others go through them that can and will impact how you view those milestones as well. Also, Nicole sounds like she just wants people to know she has sex. Good for you, Nicole. We’re all very happy for you.

Two episodes in the greencard listener question… why?? Mailbag episodes were my favorite from Nicole’s Betches Brides era, but those q&a’s were concise & relatable to the entire audience base - something this question was absolutely not. Thank you Nicole for finally moving on & getting Caroline off her soapbox. I want to love this pod so much, but we need more episodes like the Therapy Chicks interview - structured & relatable, put an end to the random rants & catch ups please!!

I wanted to love this podcast and loved the idea but it’s slipped and it’s almost like they just want to have a podcast to talk about their personal lives but thats not what this podcast is advertised as. I wanted to listen about topics marriage, partners, life after the wedding etc… don’t really think Caroline’s fashion opinions are relevant. Caroline BULLDOZES Nicole and thinks she knows the answer to everything. Comes off totally out of touch and narcissistic. Wanted to love but it’s not good eek

I keep hoping the podcast will evolve into something with direction because I like following both hosts, but it continues to be random and less relatable.

I started listening to this podcast because I followed Nicole from when she was on Betches Brides and genuinely loved her sense of humor and what she brought to the show. This podcast, similar to what others say lacks structure and also is just so incredibly unrelatable and embodies everything that is wrong with society today. The two come off as extremely narcissistic and materialistic. The dynamic between Caroline and Nicole feels off to me and not genuine, Caroline is constantly talking over Nicole and it feels like trying to one up her. It’s so hard to listen to. Caroline in particular is so out of touch with reality, the way that she talks about her husband is so distasteful. The best episode was when Nicole’s sister Jenna was on, their banter felt much more genuine and natural. I was really hoping it would get better but overall just very unrelatable and I don’t like the way it leaves me feeling after I’m done listening. I really wanted to like this!

Update: genuinely don’t understand the point of this pod? For us to listen to two girls from New York talk about their weekends? No valuable or interesting information ever, guests are all influencers that have nothing of substance to add or say. Was sticking around with hopes that it would improve but unfortunately it has not. I really like the idea of this podcast- the lack of structure, random jumping from one topic to another, and no real advice makes it hard to listen to. I would love if they had relevant guests who can give credible advice/input (not just more influencers) on each topic.

Really enjoy this

These girls are so negative and ungrateful. Such a toxic pod. Don’t waste your time.

I have been listening from the beginning and feel like the more recent episodes have been bringing the vulnerable conversation and candid opinions I was hoping this pod would touch on! Love where this is headed! Keep it up Girls!

At first the podcast was good but lately the best ep was with Nicole’s sister. The show had potential but lost its focus.

the episode that just dropped ahead some GROSS takes re: addressing unhoused people undergoing a mental crisis AND male/female friendships. my bestie just had a wedding where she had a groomsmaid (childhood best friend) and the husband had a bridesman (college friend) and literally NO ONE was threatened or cared ??? ya’ll need to grow👏🏻up👏🏻

They so badly want to be That Girl that it comes across pretentious and ungrateful. They constantly interrupt guests and don’t connect with their listeners at all. I’m hoping this podcast evolves as they grow more comfortable in their role.

I really wanted to like this podcast because I like following Nicole but Caroline just is so out of touch with reality and thinks very highly of herself and it comes off in an annoying whiny way. Like when she complained John didn’t do enough for Valentine’s Day. He cut your strawberries into hearts?!? Excuse me how is that not enough. And the most recent episode you don’t carry an item of luggage?! Nicole if you want this podcast to succeed you may need a new cohost. Your episode with Mike and your sister were the best yet!

I love the idea of this podcast and I came to it hoping the hosts would really dive in to topics related to marriage, the early years of marriage, and being a young married person. However, I find that what they talk about on the show is more about just being women in their 20s-30s, not being married people in their 20s-30s. That can be fun and nice, but it’s not really a show about marriage and I was disappointed.

My new favorite show! I’m getting married and none of my other friends are at that life stage yet. I feel like Caroline and Nikki are my friends. I appreciate their honesty and I love their wrecks of the week.

I loved this podcast in the beginning when the focus was on navigating relationships, newlywed topics, etc. But as the podcast as gone in it has turned into two NY influences gabbing about their lives and idk if we need any more of those out there. I would encourage the hosts to bring the focus of the podcast back to its original intent

Loved hearing Nicole and Jenna together! So fun to hear their dynamic and they had good stories.

I loved listening to Nicole on Brides, but now I am a mom and a wife and I find the girls to seem a little entitled on this show. I couldn’t bear to listen to them complain about not getting wrapped flowers on Valentine’s Day when they got so many special gifts and gestures. And it feels weird to hear them talk about children and babies when they have no idea how hard being a mom is!

In general, love this podcast! However my only critique would be to cut down on the inside jokey stuff at the beginning. Often times it seems like it takes up half the episode or more. Otherwise, fantastic and relatable, keep up the good work, ladies!

I’ve been recommending the pod to all my friends! I’m getting married soon and about to turn 30 so it has been so relatable and enjoyable. I think I laugh out loud at some point in each episode!

It was the best because Caroline wasn’t on the pod!! Thank God! Everything about her is awful and annoying. I feel bad for her husband. She illustrates exactly how to ruin your marriage by being selfish and spoiled. So I guess if the point of “honey we’re home” is to learn all aspects of relationships Caroline is covering all the what not to dos. She literally thinks she’s soooo cute physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. and I can assure you she and her whole attitude is not cute at all. Please Nicole, get a new cohost. This girl is making your stock tank!

Love this podcast - Nicole and Caroline have such a great dynamic and discuss such relatable issues. I look forward to listening to the episode every week!!

The one thing that irks me to my core is when they stop reading the listener email midway through and just paraphrase because they think it’s too long 💀💀💀 just read the whole thing it will probably just take just as long to paraphrase and we want the full story from the person who took the time to write it. Otherwise, I love this podcast! I am in the early years of marriage and I find this to be relatable and helpful in so many ways. Keep up the good work :)

I’ve followed Nicole from betches and found Caroline a while ago during her wedding year on TikTok and I am so happy I gave this podcast a listen. I do like each of these creators on their own, but I feel like this podcast you really get to know them and they talk about very real topics and they are both very open with how they feel about things and it’s so refreshing knowing I’m not alone lol. The divorce episode was really great and I loved that they dove into a truly uncomfortable topic. Added to my rotation!

Wanted to like this but it’s just bad. You are both just not relatable

Loved these two ever since Caroline was a guest on BRIDES. I enjoy listening to them chat as if I’m sitting in on the conversation. Personally I like podcasts that make me feel like that. I also love the transparency whether I agree with their views or not. This podcast is entertaining and makes me feel like I’m having some girl time when I’m feeling lonely. Thanks Nicole and Caroline! 🩷

I listen because I love Caroline and been following her since I found her on bridal tik tok and Betches days. I still really enjoy her on this!! but find Nicole to be a bit tough to listen to at times; it seems like she can’t be serious about anything and always laughing/apologizing for everything she says… it takes away from the deeper conversations and makes her come off as inauthentic and not serious about anything. The constant apologizing and having to explain herself for every opinion diminishes the quality of the conversation. I can’t really understand how she feels about a topic, as she flip flops her stance. I get it may be nervous giggling but it takes away from the sincerity and vulnerability of these topics. Keep working at it!! I’ve enjoyed the pod overall but this one thing has been very distracting as a listener!

I gave this a try but it’s difficult to tell if they’re genuine or fake. They seem like they try to one-up each other. They cut each other off when speaking, and go on off topic tangents. Not my type of podcast.

I was originally very disappointed by the lack of direction of the first couple episodes but boy did it get better! The conversation about kids, John’s episode’s, last week’s with the therapist. This has become such a good resource and podcast for married women. I can’t wait to see where this podcasts goes!

They navigated the conversations and questions with the guests really well and you can tell they’re getting better at podcasting and being more comfortable with discussing deeper topics and reflecting!

3rd & final update review: I’ve listened to every episode since the launch because I’m a fan of both creators but this podcast isn’t “it”. They complain about a lot and while everyone is human and we all get annoyed at things- there’s more to life than focusing on the negative. Overall, I didn’t like how I felt after listening to an episode- pass!

Like many others I want to love this, and hope it gets better. I think these two are funny and creative but hearing them talk about major life events like having children, when they live such a privileged and out of touch lifestyle is my “ick of the week”. 🙃 Also, their husbands seem great and down to earth, which makes hearing the girls complain about them painful.

I tried to give this podcast a try but after this weeks episode which discusses body issues regarding pregnancy I just can’t subscribe to this anymore. So out of touch and I couldn’t follow what Nicole’s view points even were.